Working for my husband sucks, I have to find a real job.

So my husband has this little saying it starts "I pay you good money" and you can just about get the gist of the rest. Anyway, it was a joke before when I was working but since the move it is really starting to get less funny. I have to get all my money from him as I am not working and have no paycheck of my own, it is infuriating. I am not used to not having my own money coming in. Most people are probably thinking I am insane, stay home have your husband work and have the money you need. What's not to like right? Well, I have many friends who are stay at home moms and many friends who work from home, all of these women have something in common, although they are at home they definitely have a job. Stay at home moms the job is obvious they are responsible for the care, education and upbringing of a little person. Those who work form home have actual employers. Me, I am not a stay at home mom unless you count the dogs, which most won't. I am trying to work from home or from anywhere really but since I am looking for part time which does not include the words "do you want fries with that" I am having difficulty.
What does this all have to do with exercise? I have nothing to do so I can exercise at home, I can go to the gym and I do. I am working out to avoid bashing my husband in the head next time he makes a joke about me not having a job or maybe to be strong enough to make it really hurt. I am also working out to have something to do that does not make me feel like the 50's idea of a housewife with the martini and dinner ready when her husband comes home.
 To be fair he has been fine with me not working but I wish it didn't give him no end of comic relief to see how frustrated I am with it. Who would have thought I would be complaining about not having a job? I guess you always think things are better on the other side until you get there. Ahhh unemployment without pressure like the desert mirage to the thirsty, when you are in a job that sucks it seems like an oasis but all your drinking in the end is handfuls of sand.